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Hi everyone!  I am so excited to tell you about my latest creation, a 6 hour course on releasing excess body weight.  I have combined my 29 years experience as a fitness trainer, knowledge from my certifications in training, coaching, hypnotherapy, personal training and Neuro-Linguistic Programming, to bring you the best processes, techniques and experiences so that you can effectively release weight and achieve the success you desire.

Have you had it with diets that only work for a little while? Have you tried everything and nothing seems to work? Losing weight can be one of the most challenging experiences in your life… if you let it.  All success begins in our mind… 

Now, not only will you remove the barriers that hold you back, you will also learn to reprogram your mind and create the success you have longed for.

If you want to exercise consistently and eat healthy food, this course is for you.  If you are working out yet still struggling with consistency and healthy eating attending this course will tip the scale in your favor and you will be successful.

Even though the topic is weight loss, you can use these skills anywhere in your life such as employment, sales, leadership, relationships and more.  The class won’t be a piece of cake either, you’ll be keeping track of food intake, exercise, and other healthy habits, report on your progress, and you will have the support of the entire group AND your accountability partner.  Not only that, you will receive a FREE copy on my new hypnosis CD on weight loss, titled “Letting Go” so you can listen at your leisure and allow my suggestions to help you eat healthy, exercise regularly and feel good! 

Feedback from my courses:

“Good class, made me realize I have work to do on myself – gave me good insight on relationships” DM

“Excellent presentation!  I can’t wait to implement ideas.” HH

 ”It was very informative and motivating and pointed me in the right direction”  A.Barchman

 ”Wonderful, gave me tools to reflect.” BJ

 ”Thank you. You are a great presenter!” LJR, CPA

Here are the current classes and contact information.

What:  6 Hour Weight Loss Course

When/Where/Cost: Only $79.00! This course will change your life forever!

 Choose one of the 3 times & locations:

 Parks & Recreation Centers:

Des Moines Activity Center (206) 870-6527 to register

• 1. Mondays-July 6, 20 & 27   6:30PM – 8:30PM or
• 2. Mondays-August 3, 17 & 24 6:30PM – 8:30PM

Burien Community Center (206) 988-3700 to register

• 3. Wednesdays-July 15, 22 & 29 – 6PM – 8PM or

 Using these innovative and proven methods from Hypnosis, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Life Coaching and Personal Fitness Training, you will discover that weight loss can be far easier than you ever imagined. Wear comfortable clothing; bring a mat or blanket and pillow and pen and paper.  I hope to see you there!

 My best,

Patricia

I recently presented a seminar on clarifying coaching competencies to a group of early childhood trainers.  First I want to acknowledge anyone who works in this stressful, highly demanding and sorely acknowledged profession.  You have my utmost respect and admiration.

The purpose of the seminar was to review the 11 core coaching competencies as defined by the International Coach Federation and for participants to learn and practice basic coaching skills including Active Listening and Powerful Questioning. 

As a way of practicing these skills I had participants work in pairs and answer the following questions.

1. If you could do anything you wanted with no limitations, what would it be?
2. What am I willing to say no to?
3. What am I committed to for my quality of life, and
4. What do I need to complete in order to feel a sense of freedom?

 While I used these questions for the purpose of practicing listening and questioning skills, they are great coaching questions to contemplate as you move forward and create more of what you want in your life.  To explore them in more detail…

Take some time now to answer question 1.  Then answer,

1. What would it mean to you if you did this?
2. What would it take for you to do this?
3. And then, list three steps you could take to do it. 

Spending time thinking and writing about what you want will turn the spot light on what you want and illuminate the choices to make to manifest them. 

Many blessings to you as you do this important work.

Patricia

Our wonderful dog Spencer, an 11 year old Papillion, loves to shake his paw for a cookie.  We bought special healthy snacks for these special times, and they are a-plenty.  Spencer jumps up and down and barks for a cookie after each meal we eat, as we are stir our coffee (who knows how this was created), after baths, nail clippings, and just because he thinks he’s a good boy

One day I tried an experiment.  Instead of a cookie, I gave him pieces of his dog food for the hand shaking.  He didn’t even notice the difference!  Interesting….  So I decided to use his dog food instead of an actual cookie for awhile.  Still he didn’t notice. 

My husband felt like I was cheating Spencer out of a real treat, but I don’t think so.  First, I figured his dog food is probably healthier than so many “cookies treats all day long.  Second and most important, it’s not important to Spencer what treat he gets.  He is more interested in the process of shaking hands for a treat… 

 What a powerful lesson for us?  How often do we fix our eyes on the treat and exclude the opportunity to fully experience the process or journey we are on?  Is the treat more important than your journey?  What are some ways to add that awareness and appreciation along the way?

Spencer

 PS Spencer still gets some “real” cookie treats

Dear Friends,

As 2008 comes to an end I think about you with gratitude.  Thank you so much for supporting me through reading my blog, attending my workshops and fitness classes, and hiring me.

I wish you the very best year ever, and l look forward to our mutually rewarding ongoing partnership.

Please take a few moments to watch this wonderful and inspiring video, and may you all find joy this coming year.

http://www.findingjoymovie.com/

All my best,

Patricia

I’ve been retired (after 30 years of government work) for 15 months now. I’m so fortunate to have begun my career early. I can’t believe the time has passed so quickly. 

I am thrilled to have joined the ranks of my esteemed retired colleagues who entered into this life changing, identity re-defining new state of “being” before me.  They said, I would love it and they were right.

Retirement has been both a soul quenching joy and a huge challenge this year.  I had big plans for expanding my coaching and training business after I retired, and couldn’t wait to begin “my new job”.

During the process I learned an amazing lesson about balance.  Without the external controls of an 8-5 job, my new work schedule was often 6:30 am to 11 pm.  I barely took time for food and bathroom breaks not to mention walking, golfing, visiting friends or other activities I longed to do in my retirement.  Thank goodness I taught fitness classes and had to get away from the computer and phone.

I finally had time to work on my business, and was driven to make it a success.  However, the deadly “owning your own business tentacles” wrapped tightly around me smothering me in the many activities required to run a business.

It’s no wonder that after several months my life became unbalanced. I focused exclusively on one goal. I began to feel trapped, unhappy and discouraged.  This was not the retirement bliss I had written about in my 5 year future-life letter while in coaching school almost 5 years ago.

I had a huge revelation! What the heck was I doing?  Here I was TRULY FREE AT LAST, and working myself to the bone – not enjoying it like I hoped for in my letter.  

I finally realized that NO goal is worth sacrificing my own wellness to achieve. When we work like this, and many of us do… our bodies give us warnings to stop such as headaches, fatigue, depression, weight gain/loss, lack of sleep, anxiety or major illness before they eventually break down…

I thought about the lessons I emphatically teach in my workshops…

First take extraordinary care of yourself, eat well, exercise and engage in nurturing activities like getting a massage, loosing your self in a hobby, journaling, meditating or reading a good book.

Second, create an internal and external support system that will help enable you to achieve your goals without sacrificing your wellness in the process.

Third, take quality time to reflect, acknowledge and peacefully contemplate where you are and where you want to be.  After all, we can’t help others if we don’t first put the oxygen mask on ourselves…

Ask yourself:  What am I doing? Where is my life unbalanced?   What am I giving up to achieve what I am pursuing? What are my TRUE priorities?

Stay tuned for Part II

Your comments & feedback are always welcome and encouraged. For an appointment call 206-459-2898 or e-mail me at: patricia@integritylifecoach.com Home page http://www.integritylifecoach.com Copyright© 2008 Patricia Eslava Vessey…All Rights Reserved

Be gentle with yourself.  If you will not be your own unconditional friend, who will be?  If you are playing an opponent and you are also opposing yourself – you are going to be outnumbered.

- Dan Millman

I love this quote about being gentle with ourselves – being our own unconditional friend. 

Most of us are not aware of our inner relationship. Often our self-talk is negative, hurtful and unsupportive.  We would never talk to a close friend this way, yet it flows with ease when we direct it at us. Why is that?  If our environment is also negative and unsupportive, what happens to us at a deep level with all this negativity? I believe we hold this negativity within us and it festers away causing even more internal damage including health problems.

You may wonder Why this so important, especially if you believe you are only hurting yourself…and/or sadly you think you don’t deserve anything better. When we hurt ourselves, not only do we dwell in the purgatory of self defeat, we also rob others of the very best of us. Those who depend on us, work with us or live with us get short changed.  How much patience, understanding, love and companionship do we really have to offer when we are not blessing ourselves by being gentle, loving and supportive inwardly?

Maybe this makes sense to you.  You know you need to improve your inner relationship and you are wondering how to do do it – where to start…

Begin by creating a vision of how you want to “be” with yourself, and spend time answering these questions.

What would it look like, how would you talk to yourself, especially when you didn’t meet your own expectations? How would you support yourself? 

What would your life like if you were gentle with yourself, and your own unconditional friend? 

How would you feel, think and be with yourself?

Spending time on creating a strong inner foundation will help you in all areas of your life.  Won’t you begin this vital work now? 

Many blessings, hope and love to you,
Patricia

Your comments & feedback are always welcome and encouraged. For an appointment call 206-459-2898 or e-mail me at: patricia@integritylifecoach.com Home page http://www.integritylifecoach.com Copyright© 2008 Patricia Eslava Vessey…All Rights Reserved

Hi all,
I just completed a session with my coach, and by the way, if you are shopping for a coach, it’s important to ask potential coaches if they are recipients of coaching.  This is because you want to know if your coach is also growing, learning and moving forward in their own lives.  Being in a coaching relationship is a commitment to their personal growth, and when they are at their best, you receive the best services.  I cannot say enough about how coaching has/is helping me stay true to my goals.  It is the best thing I have ever done for myself.  Maybe I’ll write about it in another post…

I want to share the steps I go through when I face adversity.  I hope they will be an encouragement to you.  (Note: I have way too much content for a blog post, so check my website for an upcoming Ecourse on this topic, and for future workshops/telecourses.  This post is a condensed version.  If you want more now, please contact me for coaching. or send an email to find out more.)

We all go through hard times.  It’s the human condition.  There is no escape.  So, stop feeling like a failure for having struggles in the first place.  What is more critical is how we manage ourselves during these times.  I look at them as opportunities to learn, grow and redefine some aspect of me, and what I want in my life.  Maybe I’m not living the way I want to, maybe I’m not honoring myself in the areas of exercise, balance, self-talk, time alone and it’s at the boiling point.   Maybe I am tired of being in a job that doesn’t fit who I am, and it has reached crisis level.  Struggles represent anything that is no longer working for us.

Think about it, it’s these hard times that move us out of discomfort into a more meaningful existence, and isn’t that what we all want?  We want our lives to matter, to contribute, to help others and to live life passionately following our purpose, right? 

Life is so much easier when we are not in boiling water, isn’t it?  We may continue on in our meager existence, maybe cooking small, or taking ourselves out of the kitchen altogether, afraid to even try creating our own feast. So how do we take full advantage of “being in the boiling water” and nourish ourselves in the process?

When I am in major boiling water, I am in and out of the carrot and egg pots several times until I finally land in the coffee pot.  The entire pot jumping time depends on the type and depth of my struggle. My steps include the following:

1) Recognize – and appreciate that I am in boiling water
2) Retreat – and go within with lots of soul searching questions
3) Resolve – to stay with it to the end, avoiding the tendency to escape from it, and
4) Recreate – new ways of being, thinking, feeling and/or acting as a result of my learning.

It is so important to nurture, love and support yourself in this most important process and opportunity.  Maybe this includes taking walks, warm baths, writing, painting, meditating or all of these self care activities.  If you are deeply frustrated, angry or depressed, resist any urges to strike out at others, and/or yourself.  Instead, support yourself through it as you would care for those you love.
 
Love, and Abundant Blessings to You,
Patricia
Your comments & feedback are always welcome and encouraged. For an appointment call 206-459-2898 or e-mail me at: patricia@integritylifecoach.com Home page http://www.integritylifecoach.com Copyright© 2007 Patricia Eslava Vessey…All Rights Reserved
 

Hi Everyone, and Happy summer!  I hope it’s warm and sunny where you are located. 

I receive lots of inspiring email stories so worthy of sharing with you.  This one is a great example…
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A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee…
You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
 
A  young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her.  She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.  She was tired of fighting and struggling.  It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
 
Her mother took her to the kitchen.  She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.  Soon the pots came to a boil.  In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.  She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.
 
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners.  She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl.  She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.  Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.  Turning to her daughter, she asked, ‘ Tell me what you see.’
 
‘Carrots, eggs, and coffee,’ she replied.
 
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.  She did and noted that they were soft.  The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.  After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.  Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.  The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.  The daughter then asked, ‘What does it mean , mother?’
 
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity:  boiling water.  Each reacted differently.  The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.  However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.  The egg had been fragile.  Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.  The ground coffee beans were unique, however.  After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
 
‘Which are you?’ she asked her daughter. 
 
‘When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?  Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
 
Think of this:  Which am I? 

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?  Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?  Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean?  The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.  When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.  If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.  When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level?  How do you handle adversity?  Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
 

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.  The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
 
May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!
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Most of us want to be coffee when it comes to adversity, right?  While these examples help us zero in on our individual responses to difficult situations, where to we get instructions on how to elevate ourselves to that higher “coffee” level?  The happiest people make the best of everything, but how do they do it?

Once the tornado begins, and we are in carrot or egg response, how can we step out of that powerful swirling windstorm and react differently, especially if that is our ingrained, lifelong response?

No matter how unrealistic or silly, list 3 things you can do to stop… in the midst of an unwanted response, and rise up to a new level. 

What would it look like in your life if you were successful at changing this response?  How would it affect your relationships, self esteem and success?

Many blessings,
Patricia

Hi everyone,

I was in a Toastmaster’s meeting yesterday, and the table topic was about our mothers.  I instantly panicked and decided when It was my turn I would pass.  Then I realized that I have not thought about my mother in a long time…even this close to mother’s day… Thoughts of her death immediately flooded my mind.  As I pushed them aside, I asked myself, what positive qualities I have that I can attribute to her.  I thought with warmth about how gregarious, tender hearted, and loving she was and I realized those qualities are shared by my siblings and me.

Most noteworthy however was my mother’s love of dance.  I grew up watching Shirley Temple movies, Lawrence Welk, and anything else on the tube that involved movement. Every time these activities were on the TV, she and my father called out to me telling me to come in and watch.  I was the only one of five kids who shared their love of dance, and they encouraged it regularly.  

My father played guitar, banjo and mandolin in a band on the weekends.  I have priceless and loving memories watching them dance to “In the Mood”, their favorite song.  Before I got older and self-conscious, I was out on the dance floor with them.  I would be all dressed up in my pretty, frilly dress jitterbugging and slow dancing with my mother and father.

These are truly wonderful and positive memories I have of my mother and I am thankful for her legacy to me.  I only wish she were here so I could tell her.  My mother died of a massive heart attack at our Christmas dinner 25 years ago.

I recognize, and appreciate that each one of our circumstances is unique with respect to our mothers.  However, if you could come up with three positive things your mother gave you, what would they be?  Write them down and spend time appreciating them, and your mother for giving them to you. 

If you are a mother, write three positive things you have learned about yourself as a mother. Next spend time honoring and appreciating you.

Happy Mother’s Day to every mother, and thanks to all who support us!
Blessings, Patricia
 

Hi everyone,

It looks like spring is finally here, although the sky looked very grey and rainy last night like a winter storm at the ocean.  Today is sunny though, here in Western Washington, in spite of the clouds. 

I don’t know about you, but I have favorite trees in my neighborhood that I drive by each day.  I watch them eagerly awaiting their magnificent display of flowers. Spring is a time of rebirth, of letting go of the past flowers still clinging to the branches, so that new ones can take their place.  It’s a time to gaze in wonder at the spectacular colors, shapes and aromas of brand new flowers. 

For those of you who attended my workshops in February and April on Extraordinary Wellness, and Extraordinary Relationships, thank you so much!  It was an wonderful having you in class.  Your participation truly made the workshops meaningful, inspiring, and successful. I truly hope you are implementing the changes you committed to, and that you create a support system with your accountability partner.

Many of you indicated on your evaluations that you want round two of Extraordinary Wellness & Extraordinary Relationships.  Others said you want classes on fitness and coaching among others.

I want to let you know I am in the process of locating training sites and I will be scheduling additional training in the future.  Let me know if you have leads, or if your worksite would like to host a training (just send me an email).  I am also working on CDs for my classes and will be offering those too.  Let me know if you have questions.

So, what will you do for yourself this spring?  Like the brand new flowers of spring, what new form of self-care will you add to your life, and what past flowers/habits clinging to the branches, will you let go of?

Many blessings to you!
Patricia

It is amazing what an injury can reveal.  Did you know you have an opportunity to up the ante on your self-care plan even when you are injured?  Don’t wait until you have a serious injury like mine before you start appreciating the precious gift of your body. Ask yourself,

1. What will I stop doing NOW that does not support my body?
2. What can I do NOW to acknowledge and appreciate my body?
3. What three things will I do NOW to support my body?

Years ago, too soon after a car accident, I was doing abdominal exercises in one of my classes and felt a sharp pain in my neck.  Ice, massage, and rest did not cure the pain, so I saw a doctor.  Several painful tests, especially the one where you have to lay down flat for the MRI, revealed a herniated disc pressing on my spine and nerves.  After several months of physical therapy, sleepless nights, and unbearable pain, in consultation with my doctor, I decided to have surgery. 

I was pretty frightened after the doctors reviewed the risks with me; death, paralysis, infection, stroke, swallowing difficulty, speech problems, or injury to the nerves or vessels of the neck…  However, the thought of living with chronic pain, and curtailing my activities for the rest of my life was definitely, not how I wanted to live.  I knew too many people who were “out of commission” for extended periods because their backs “went out”, and that was not for me.  I could not imagine having to be so careful all the time.  I wanted my life back and would face my fear and go “under the knife” to get it…

It had been weeks since I taught a fitness class, or worked out.  Having to wear a neck brace all the time to alleviate the pain prohibited a number of activities and kept me absorbed in my injury.
 
As my inactivity continued, I realized I was depressed.  After 20 plus years (at the time) of teaching weekly fitness classes, a sedentary lifestyle was foreign to my body, and I knew I had to get moving, somehow.  I figured I could not hurt myself any more, so I attended a few exercise classes.  Even though I worked out in pain, I started feeling better emotionally and somewhat physically too. I knew from research that exercise is a highly effective treatment for depression, and the treatment was working, even after a few workouts.  It’s amazing what exercise can do for your emotional state.  The cures for so many of our ailments are within easy reach…

Just before the surgery, my family and friends threw me a “last supper” celebration.  We laughed and joked, but secretly I my terror grew.  When I got to the hospital and met with nurses, and anesthesiologists, et al, they asked me how I was feeling, and told them I felt good (because of the effects of exercise…).  The next thing I remember was waking up in the operating room with my doctor looking down at me and asking if I had told everyone I was feeling good.  I groggily said yes, I was feeling better.  He  said, I am not going to operate on you then, and he sent me home…

Now I was really depressed because I had already resolved and processed the fear, the shaving of the back of my head, and recovery time, and I had my last supper…  I wanted this surgery, and now feared I would have to live a life limiting and pain filled existence. 

The next day I met with my doctor, and after a discussion, the surgery was rescheduled and successfully completed.  My pain was instantly gone, the recovery was tolerable and I resumed my fitness-teaching schedule in five weeks, which was pretty amazing.
 
When my neck injury healed, I had a new appreciation for my body.  I realized how much I rely on its strength and stamina on a daily basis, and how much I take it for granted.  I depend on its health and well-being, and in return, I gain freedom and independence in the world.  I became fully aware of how well my body had served me during my lifetime, and I was filled to overflowing with gratitude. 

I had been teaching fitness classes and offering personal training to help others.  I had never really worked out to help me, Patricia… My neck injury was a gift, which helped me, connect with my body and acknowledge and appreciate what it does for me.  With this knowledge, I vowed to up the ante on my self-care plan.  I became more gentle and caring in all things I did for me.  I vowed to become stronger, to apply my personal training skills on myself too. With this new purpose fitness took on a completely new meaning for me.
 
When I am practicing self-care, which includes lovingly tending to my body, intellect, emotions, social, environmental and spiritual dimensions, I am teaching myself to acknowledge, nurture, and value myself.  This not only enables me to be more effective in whatever I set out to do, it also fills me up and provides me with more to share with others.

It is interesting what an injury can reveal…  Many blessings to you all.
Patricia

Your comments & feedback are always welcome and encouraged. For an appointment call 206-459-2898 or e-mail me at: patricia@integritylifecoach.com Home page http://www.integritylifecoach.com Copyright© 2007 Patricia Eslava Vessey…All Rights Reserved

Hi everyone, Happy Thursday!

On February 24 I taught three workshops at the Kitsap Association for the Education of Young Children conference (KAEYC).  They were, Extraordinary Relationships (based on my just released book, “Vibrant & Lasting Relationships”, Leadership Coaching to improve your work environment, and Creating a Wellness Plan (I will also be teaching these workshops at Renton Tech in April, and hopefully in Tacoma at the WAEYC conference this year. 

During the workshops I mentioned the Collaborative Leadership Institute and encouraged you all to attend.  Then I realized that many of my blog subscribers are from the Early Learning Field, and so what better way to get the word out about this fabulous resource then to post the details here on my blog!

I attended the very first CLI and I am on the Alumni Committee several years ago.
Let me tell you it was an incredible experience.  I met people in the Early Learning field, from all over Washington State, and I learned so much from them, and I stretched and grew in my leadership role.  Attending the CLI added leadership skills to my management toolbox, and I was able to create a project that I believed would help others. Believe me; you do not want to miss this wonderful opportunity. So, if you have to beg, borrow or steal your way to attend this institute, you want to do it now.

We are creating a scholarship fund to help others attend.  You will definitely be hearingmore about this if you are in the Early Learning Field in Washington State, so stay tuned… 

By the way, if you know anyone who would like to donate to the scholarship fund, please don’t hesitate to let me know, or Katy Warren, listed below.  Here’s the info:

The Collaborative Leadership Institute (CLI) is a 10-month intensive leadership
development program for early learning leaders in Washington.

Our goal is a renewed and lasting network of leaders prepared to advance innovative
approaches and promote collaborations that benefit children and families.
Sponsors include Department of Early Learning, Washington State Association of Head
Start & ECEAP, Foundation for Early Learning, Child Care Resource & Referral Network, and WAEYC.

CLI Graduates will:
• Develop an innovative project to benefit the community
• Increase self-awareness of personal leadership style
• Explore leadership research and literature
• Understand early learning as a system
• Cultivate a broad range of strategies to achieve goals
• Gain ability to harness resources to fuel your actions
• Create change and make an impact in the field of early learning

Who should apply?
Emerging leaders working within the early learning, early care, and after-
school fields. Applications for the 2008 cohort are being accepted through January 15, 2008. See reverse for more information. Applications will be available November 1, 2007, at www.wsaheadstarteceap.com/cli.html

For more information, please contact:

Phone: 253.373.9100
Fax: 253.373.1321
Email: katy@wsaheadstarteceap.com
841 N. Central Ave, Suite 204
Kent, WA 98032
WASHINGTON STATE ASSOCIATION OF HEAD START AND ECEAP
2008 COLLABORATIVE LEADERSHIP INSTITUTE
Great Opportunity for Emerging Leaders in the Early Learning Field!

Who can apply
Applicants will be considered from Head Start/Early Head Start; ECEAP; Out of
School Programs; Resource and Referral Network; child care centers/homes;
health; schools; and at-large including parent cooperative preschools, board
members, affiliated businesses and libraries.

Candidates must have access to e-mail and the Internet. Applicants that reflect
diverse perspectives, cultures and experiences are encouraged to apply. The
strongest candidates will demonstrate commitment, curiosity, risk-taking and
vision.

Teams are welcome
Individuals from different organizations within a community are encouraged to
apply as a team. Team applicants will be considered for selection as a team.
To qualify as a team, team members must agreed to work together to complete
a project for the benefit of their organizations and the community.
Participant Expectations
• Full-time attendance at the three on-site forums
• Establish an individualized development plan
• Participate in telephone and/or e-mail coaching with instructor
• Participate in on-line discussions with the cohort
• Complete individual and group assignments including assigned reading,
focused written reflection papers and activities
• Complete and present an individual or group project

Key Dates
Applications Available: November 1, 2007
Application Deadline: January 15, 2008
On-site Forums: March 17-19, 2008 at Dumas Bay Centre, Federal Way
June 23-25, 2008 at Central Washington University
November 12-14, at Dumas Bay Centre, Federal Way

Tuition
Due to the generous support of the Institute’s sponsors, participants pay only
30% of the true cost of the program. Fee per student is $800, which can be
paid by the participant, his or her program, community partner, or any combination
thereof.

Faculty
Helen Jones, Ph.D., CLI Coordinator, owns Jones Consulting based in Spokane
and has a doctorate is Human and Organizational Development. She was formerly
a full-time faculty member for the GU Master of Arts in Organizational
Leadership Department and adjunct faculty at Whitworth College.
Debra Ren-Etta Sullivan, Ph.D., is the co-founder and President of the Praxis
Institute for Early Childhood Education, Seattle, WA. She was formerly the
Dean of Pacific Oaks College Northwest. She has a doctorate in Educational
Leadership and has worked in public and private higher education for the last 23
years as a teacher, researcher, curriculum developer, and an administrator.
Collaborative Leadership Institute Information

Here is the website:  http://www.wsaheadstarteceap.com/cli.html

Let me know if you have questions!
Take awesome care of yourself,
Patricia

This prayer is in a couples daily devotional book my husband and I are reading.  It is titled Quiet Times For Couples by H.Norman Wright and it is filled with many wonderful insights.  One of them is this prayer for couples.  It is meant to share.  Many blessings to you this special heartfelt day. 

(James Dillet Freeman)

May your marriage bring you all the exquisite excitements a marriage should bring,
and may life grant you also patience, tolerance, and understanding.

May you always need one another -
not so much to fill your emptiness as to help you to know your fullness.
A mountain needs a valley to be complete;
the valley does not make the mountain less, but more;
and the valley is more a valley because it has a mountain towering over it.
So let it be with you and you.

May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you entice one another, but not compel one another.
May you embrace one another, but not out encircle one another.
May you succeed in all important ways with one another, and not fail in the little graces.
May you look for things to praise, often say, “I love you!” and take no notice of small faults.

If you have quarrels that push you apart,
may both of you hope to have good sense enough to take the first step back.

May you enter into the mystery which is the awareness of one another’s presence -
no more physical than spiritual, warm and near when you are side by side,
and warm and near when you are in separate rooms or even distant cities.
May you have happiness, and may you find it making one another happy.
May you have love, and may you find it loving one another!

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Patricia

Hi everyone and Happy Holidays,

I am thinking about you this special time of year with gratitude, and wishing you all the gifts your heart desires. May your life be rich in love, peace, joy, and overflowing with abundance in spirit and harmony that you share with others.

Here is an article I wrote for the holidays last year – hope you enjoy it.

http://ezinearticles.com/?12-Transforming-Questions-for-the-Season&id=372368

Warmest regards & best wishes,

Patricia
Patricia Eslava Vessey, CPC, ACC
Certified Professional Coach
Integrity Coaching & Training Systems
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